Networking has a reputation for feeling awkward or transactional, but the most effective professional relationships are built well before you need anything from them.
A useful mindset shift is to approach networking as building genuine relationships rather than collecting contacts. Reach out with real curiosity — ask about someone's work, share something relevant you noticed, or offer help before asking for it.
Consistency matters more than intensity. A brief, genuine check-in every few months maintains a relationship far more effectively than a single, high-pressure ask right when you need a job.
When you do need to ask for help — an introduction, advice, or information about an opportunity — be specific and considerate of the other person's time. Clear, low-effort requests are far more likely to receive a thoughtful response.